SEX

Sex sex sex....

Being brought up in a Chinese family, the thought of sex when you live with your parents (regardless of your age) is taboo! As embarrassing as it may sound, my parents are so strict about this topic that even looking at two lovers kissing in a movie is wrong! I remembered having to close my eyes when there will be a scene where two lovers look at each other affectionately and their proximity tend to be closer or either one of my parents will point his/ her finger at me and exclaim "hamsap!" (meaning pervert). Not being stereotypical here but generally, Asian parents are more discreet about topics regarding to sex.

Honestly, parents may be very secretive about sex to protect their children (i have no idea from what) but once their children are unleashed from their parents sphere, stepping into the world full of vicious wolves, is the protection really handy or is it a form of euthanasia? Their children's sex education would be largely dependant on their friends and the media or the internet wouldn't it? Who is to blame if something goes wrong? Examples include that of rape, teenage pregnancy, etc...

So, what's the big fuss about sex? Sex is indeed interesting. No doubt! But there are lots of negative influences surrounding this activity in each person waiting for it's time to penetrate and enter this realm. Being able to only talk about it once we are out of our family's presence and putting on an innocent face as soon as we enter into our family's circle is preposterous! Unfortunately, that's the situation for most Asian kids. I guess, the best defence for us is to really distinguish between what's right and wrong. Though it's intriguing, we have to make wise choices before getting ourselves involved in this activity. Then again, it largely depends on our beliefs and principles. Some of us believe in sex after marriage, some believe in satisfying our sexual drives first, whereas there are some who believe that it's okay to have sex once you are in a relationship for quite some time. Whatever your beliefs are, don't jump straight into the pool once you see an opportunity! Sit down, think about it properly first and then decide.

For those who believe in sex after marriage but are caught up in a situation where they think that they will marry their partners one day and just can't wait for the sex, control yourselves! You never know what may come along the way. Once you have done it, there will be no turning back! So, before your hands clasp and your bodies tangle; think!

Personally, i believe in the sanctity of marriage and sex. Do you?

This post is not intended to condemn anyone about their sexual life. I am not a sex guru either. Don't misinterpret it.